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"Who has had the most positive inlfuence on your life?"

 Webisode #3
People come in to your life for a reason and it lasts a season or a lifetime. Who in your life came when least expected and made the most positive influence on you?
Watch this video to see who had a significant impact on me like none other .  Take the challenge to recognize and thank someone from your life.

If you are interested in reading more about the power of influence and impact on others in your life check out this book.  The authors name is Kenny Mauck. He also is another person who has had a huge influence on me in my career. I'm blessed to have known him and have his instruction during my practicum days in college. This just came out and will really inspire and challenge you. Check it out!

                                                                       

"I Cant believe This is Happening".

Its a brand new adventure and seems to crazy cool to be true.  Its an experience like none other and Im grateful. This is a 15 minute video of a trek across the country to experience this first hand.

" Are you working A Purpose job?" Kevs Car Chat episode 2

                                                                                    

Is your job boring and routine or is it one you are passionate about and live to do everyday? 

Here are some simple things to consider and keep in mind when considering your job/career and its impact on your and the world around you .

This book is one of the best when it comes to finding a real purpose in all you do every day written by one of my faves... Donald Miller

  

Or try this book which has been a favorite and referred book for many years. This has more suggestions, resources and guidance for the perfect career of all time.

Still uncertain about what to do? Click this link below to get a list of online tests to choose from that will help you find exactly what your looking for...

https://www.themuse.com/advice/the-11-best-career-quizzes-to-help-you-find-your-dream-job

"What do you think about the most?" Kevs Car Chat- Episode #1

                                                                   

What we think about can control everything about us, even the way we feel. What do you think about the most? Is it positive or negative? Do you find yourself ruminating on that one thought all day? Does what you think about cause stress? Sometimes our minds can be our worst enemy. 

Take a moment to stop and think what maybe you can do to Change your thinking 

and see how it can change everything!

The idea of thoughts leading to stress is a part of one of my favorite books named ,

"The Body Keeps the Score". Click the title to check it out on Amazon today.

Puzzled

"Good morning buddy" I say when I go to his room to get him from his bed.

"Puzzles". Oliver's response

I carry him to mom to eat and cuddle while I'm getting ready and pass the kitchen where now his puzzles are.

"Puzzles" he says as we pass by and he points to them.

He arrives in our bedroom and I lay him down. "Puzzles, Puzzles".

     It goes on all morning. It goes on all day. He wants more puzzles. He wants not just one. He wants them all at the same time. Puzzles. from the time he gets up to the time he goes to bed. Its a mystery to me how he can do the 8-9 puzzles he has all day and get up the next day wanting to do them all over again.  But its a thing at our home. Needless to say he loves them and cant stop doing them.
      I'm not sure how long it will last but in the mean time hearing him say this word is sometimes redundant but very cute. I cant tell you how many times I've watched this video and a few others of him saying "Puzzles, puzzles". This word is said more than any word ever. More than mom, dad, eat, pup pup, poop and the few other words he says that stand out in his little Chinese jibber jabber.

Let me make a plug here for where the puzzles come from. The company is named.............

"Melissa and Doug"

     I dont know who you guys are but you make amazing stuff. Love these puzzles (not as much as he does but they are very cool).  Great colors and great sounds to go along with each piece. You can get them at Ross, TJMax, Kohls and other places just like these. There are so many kinds its pretty overwhelming. Even better... they make a lot more great toys and kid furniture items as well.

 

Check them out below. They are great learning tools.  These puzzles also have sound which makes it more fun! (My favorite is the automobile one)

Supai Wake

One week ago today I got a text with the gut wrenching news that this very young 27 year old Supai man had died . A week ago yesterday he was sitting next to me in a group of guys sharing stories of family, children, art, work and real struggles. I had the honor of attending his wake as the only white man in the midst over a hundred native men , women, children and close family . I was a part of the ceremonial dance the music the testimonials and asked to share. I’d known him for about nine months. We never would have thought anything like this would have unfolded less than 12 hours from our last time together that Friday morning in group. His 4 little girls and wife danced in a slow sway in front of the casket in the middle of the room until the early morning hours. I was engaged in this event for around six hours as I sat next to another previous group member , now a year into his sobriety , who had his head down in his grief the entire time. I left at 1:30 a.m. to walk to the place where I stayed . It’s amazing at night way down there to still see the walls of the canyon as silhouettes and the stars glowing like they are actually closer. Even tho it was a very short night of rest I managed a little as i would soon be up to meet with my group and everyone again just as last Friday and every Friday . This time tho without this great guy who made an even greater mistake giving into a trigger and being in the wrong place at the wrong time. This is why I am here and do what I do. Even if to just make a small difference and help someone make better choices that breaks the cycle substance abuse has on this culture. Then like every Friday afternoon when I walk through the village I can see the people I have the privilege to work with doing there part in some way and helping this small community and their families........Instead of seeing one that everyone knew and loved in a casket being prepared for service way before his time. #gratefulforknowingyou #RIP